When I was 14 I had good reason to believe my parents were buying me my first CD payer for Christmas. Up to that point I only owned cassette tapes and cassette tape players. A week or two before Christmas, I bought my first CD: Ill Na Na by Foxy Brown. My sister laughed, asking me why I was buying a CD when I didn't even have anything to play it on.
Decisions make us who we are. Everything you are, do and have right now is a direct reflection of your decisions. So if any of the is not ideal, you need to start making better decisions.
So, the next time you have to make a decision, make the decision as the person you wish to become would decide. If you make decisions as the person you are now, you will continue being, doing and having what you are/do/have now.
And if the world is moving (it always is) and you're not, you lose.