Repeat after me (Clears throat):
Most rules are merely optional.
My only "supposed to's" are standards set by me.
If anyone is bothered by the shine of my light, that person - not my confidence - is the problem.
I am real with myself.

The Super You: Unlocking and Living With Your Highest Level Of Confidence
I can change my situation at any time, even if the only change is how I see the situation.
I am my #1 priority.
I've earned the right to be happy.
What other people think I should be, do or want is not my business or concern.
Everything in my life starts and ends with me.