If you’ve ever had the experience, you know: things are a lot easier — and you get what you want more often — when you’re doing the choosing rather than hoping to be chosen. Today we explore how you’ll get yourself started on such a path.

2:07 Today’s Topic: How To Go From Chosen to Choosing

4:57 Point I: Beggars can’t be choosers.

10:05 Point II: Performance matter.

13:51 Point III: You get everything you want in life by needing nothing. – Russell Simmons

21:41 Point IV: Tip to better position yourself: Increase the number of people, places and things that you are willing to walk away from.

27:04 Recap